How to Practice Mindfulness Anytime: A Beginner’s Guide to Presence
Mindfulness is an easy concept.
Your mind is fully here—that’s mindfulness.
But if you’re anything like me, your mind tends to wander all day long.
“What am I going to eat for dinner?”
“I haven’t finished this or that.”
“Ugh, xxx was kind of annoying yesterday.”
That’s not mindfulness. That’s being pulled by a stream of little thoughts and emotions.
A thought pops up—we drift. A negative emotion shows up—we react.
Our minds follow wherever those thoughts lead.
Mindfulness, instead, is about experiencing what’s happening right now—
The breeze on your skin, the view before your eyes, the sounds that surround you.
To return to mindfulness, that's why we-
1. Breathe
Breathing is your anchor.
It brings your mind back to the now.
It sweeps away the mental noise and centers you in the present moment.
And it doesn’t need to be formal meditation.
You don’t have to sit for an hour a day.
Just remind yourself—whenever you can, to take a conscious breath and feel what’s around you.
2. What You’re Doing Is the Most Important Thing
This is a powerful teaching from my mindfulness hero, Thích Nhất Hạnh.
He said:
“If you are washing the dishes to have tea later, then you are not washing the dishes.”
Because now your mind is already drinking the tea.
But if you wash the dishes just to wash the dishes—that’s mindfulness.
That moment, that task, becomes the most important thing in the world.
At Plum Village, they ring a bell throughout the day.
Each time the "dong!~" sound comes out, everyone stops what they’re doing and returns to themselves—breathing, pausing, being.
We can do the same.
Even 5 seconds of real focus, again and again, adds up to something powerful.
3. Don’t Set a Goal—You’re Already Here
I’ve noticed something:
When I try too hard to be mindful, I become less mindful.
Because I’m chasing a future state instead of experiencing what I'm doing now.
But mindfulness isn’t a goal. It’s a state. And it’s always right here.
So don’t wait, don't expect. Just…
- Breathe.
- Focus on what you’re doing.
- Feel the moment.
- Let the thing you are doing be the most important thing right now.
- Stay there as long as you want.
Then repeat.
Every time you do this, you’re cultivating a peaceful mind.
And with practice, that peace becomes your rhythm.